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I am still feeling on top of the world! I just got back late last night from
spending the Labor Day weekend in La Jolla, CA with a group of small business
owners. We were led by the amazing Mark LeBlanc ( www.smallbusinesssuccess.com)
and the weekend was awesome! Not only was there great teaching, bonding, and
laughing but we were treated to incredible meals! I feel great!
Every one there was fascinating but I was especially honored to meet Jackie
Pflug. You may remember the hijacking in Malta 20 years ago? Jackie was on the
plane and was one of the people that was shot and thrown off the plane. Please
visit www.JackiePflug.com
and watch the 30-minute video as she tells her story. This will change your
life! Jackie is the most upbeat, beautiful woman you could ever meet, with a
smile that warms you down to your toes!
I was amazed by the beauty of La Jolla. Our hotel was right in the shopping district and just a few blocks from the ocean. It felt so good to walk outside
in beautiful weather and just enjoy the scenery. It was also great to eat every meal outside and feel the cool ocean breeze.
Usually in my newsletter I have a number of sections, but this month I just want to focus on what I learned from spending time at the beach.
I was able to spend a couple of hours each day on the beach while I was in La
Jolla, CA over Labor Day weekend. What an absolute treat for me! There are two
things in nature that really soothe me and they are water and the mountains. I
went and sat on the beach, buried my toes in the softest sand that I have ever
felt and let myself just enjoy the moment. For those of who you who know me you
know what an accomplishment this if for me – just to relax! But of course, I
couldn't just sit there and not do anything! As I was watching the different
types of people totally enjoying themselves in the water I realized that there
are lessons to be learned from the ocean.
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The view that
gave me these life lessons from the beach |
I watched with interest as various groups of people would be standing on the
beach enjoying the water as it came on shore covering their feet. As they got
comfortable they would get more and more into their conversation and not notice
their surroundings. This would be the exact moment that a huge wave would come
up far further on shore than normal and totally knock some of the group on their
rear ends! Much to their surprise! It was interesting to watch their reactions.
Some laughed and took it in stride and others were totally upset that their
clothes got wet. Which I found interesting – you are standing in water, after
all, what do you expect?!
Lesson #1: Be aware of your surroundings. When we get too comfortable
with how we are doing things stuff can happen that can knock us down. Always
know what's going on around you.
It was fascinating to watch experienced swimmers swim out into the ocean. As
they saw a large wave approach they would do one of two things. They would
either anticipate when the wave was going to hit and just at that moment they
would swim under the wave or, they would turn their back and let the wave crash
around them.
Lesson #2: Always anticipate and know what your next move is going to be.
Have your plans in place.
Lesson #3: Know when to turn away. Perhaps this project is best for
someone else to do or not have done at all. Or perhaps this project is best done
on a day when you are more able to handle it and do it well.
The experienced swimmers had all the right gear: Wet suit, flippers, goggles,
snorkel equipment, and some even had a knife wrapped around their calf (no idea
what was going on with that).
Lesson #4: Do you have the right equipment to do your job well and safely?
Do you have all the right equipment ready to go? In one place so you can easily
find it? Can you find what you need? Do you have what you need?
It's really all about timing. As the wave approaches the swimmer braces to
either ride the wave or decide to swim under. But she knows exactly when to make
the decision.
Lesson #5: How is your timing? Do you know how long your next project is
REALLY going to take? Make educated decisions based on past experiences, not on
how you feel at the moment.
The swimmers don't go out into the ocean and expect to face the ocean all at
once. They take each wave one at a time.
Lesson #6: Don't look at your day as a whole. Break it down into small
waves! What's the most important thing to do first, then second, and so on?
Since I am not a swimmer I was amazed at the strength they exhibited as they
swam out in to the ocean and faced one huge wave after another. They must have
great physical strength and be in great shape.
Lesson #7: How well are you prepared to face all that you do each day?
Are you rested, eating well, exercising, etc?
The swimmers seemed to know intuitively which waves to face and swim through
and which wave to turn their back on and just ride though.
Lesson #8: Do you know which projects you are ready and willing to take on
and be successful? Do you know which projects should be deleted or
delegated to someone else? I think if you look at the stress in your life right
now it's probably because there is a project in your life that you should have
turned your back on.
Take time to sit, relax, and wiggle your toes in the sand! Now, I would be
hard pressed in SD to find some sand by an ocean but I do have a great front
yard to go out and sit in, wiggle my toes in the grass, and just enjoy where
life has taken me and where I am right now.
Lesson #9: Look around right now at all that you have to appreciate and thank
at least 3 people in your life today for being supportive and loving you!
One of the main reasons I made the decision to attend my conference in La Jolla
was the incredible support from my husband. I need to thank him!
I was absolutely amazed at the beauty not only of La Jolla, CA but
particularly sitting on the beach and taking in the gorgeous ocean, the cliffs,
the seals, sea gulls, boats out on the water, people kayaking together, and the
sunsets. Unbelievable!!
Lesson #10: Take time to think, preferably out of your office. Get
outside, enjoy all the beauty of nature that we take for granted, and start
appreciating all that you have going for you! I'm not kidding – go do this –
TODAY!
Please read through these 10 lessons again and just pick one that you are going
to do or think about today!
Would you like to spend a fun weekend learning all that I have discovered not
only on the beach but in the past 25 years so you, too, can be more focused,
have more confidence, be more balanced, and have more time?
I would like to cordially invite you to do something extraordinary for yourself!
This incredible event will be held October 6-7, 2006 in Sioux Falls, SD. You
will enter the
TimeSpa at 3:00pm on Friday and leave totally refreshed and with an
action plan to have more time in your life at 4:00pm on Saturday.
This event is the first of its kind anywhere and I am THRILLED to present it to
you.
This weekend is for you if you:
- Feel swamped by piles of paper
- Have more work to do than hours in the day
- You can never find what you need when you need it
- You have stacks of paper on the kitchen counter and your desk and you have
no idea what is the best use of your time
- You feel totally overwhelmed at the office and home and you know it's
preventing you from what you want to achieve in your life
- You are not spending your time you'd like on what you really enjoy
- Know change has to happen but don’t know where to begin
Come and enjoy a TimeSpa weekend with me on October 6-7, 2006 and you will
learn:
- How to develop your own GPS system (Goal Planning System)
- How to set goals that you can achieve in 30 day, 90 days, and one year
- How to have an action plan to reach your dreams
- How to organize any area in your home or office with the S.T.A.R.T.™ Method
- How to stop feeling overwhelmed (in only 7 steps!!)
- How to take active responsibility for your life and start making changes
- How to destroy the FEAR monster and start taking risks
- How to discover the power of positive thinking
- How to take back control of your home and office with simple organizing
systems
- How to tame the Paper Tiger once and for all!
- How to have a totally organized and efficient kitchen
- How to design a personalized menu plan
- How to increase your confidence
- How to organize your closet in 6 easy steps
- How to identify the personalities of people in your life (including your
own!) and start changing relationships over night
- How to camouflage your 'problem' areas and accentuate your assets so you can
start buying clothes that are right for your figure and save time and money in
the store
After the weekend you will:
Have an action plan with doable tasks.
Leave with an increased sense of "I can do this" and feel really great about
yourself.
Feel pampered.
Have fun!
Meet other wonderful women who you can reach out to after the weekend is
over for support.
For more information and to register please visit
www.ElizabethHagen.com/TimeSpa today! I will have a limited number of guests
and want you to be one of them!
If you think this is right for you – and I hope you do – please register soon as
the early bird investment of $189 ends on September 13, 2006. Take ACTION
TODAY!! Call me at 605-357-8767 or register at
www.ElizabethHagen.com/TimeSpa.
See my upcoming speaking engagements at
www.elizabethhagen.com/speaking_training.html
I'm in the process now of booking fall/winter speaking engagements. If your
business or organization would like to start off this fall being more focused,
organized, and productive please visit the
Speaking page on my website.
It's time to make your life easier!
Contact Elizabeth
Elizabeth Hagen
ElizabethHagen.com
605.357.8767
4400 Northridge Circle
Sioux Falls, SD 57105
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